Want to find your perfect partner? How do you attract them? When we are looking for a lifelong partner we want one that understands us and strives to make our day better. We want our partner to admire us, lift us up and support us in whatever makes us happy. Well, here is the well-known, practiced little secret to attracting the partner you have been looking for.
Your first step is to get out your journal or a piece of paper and a pen. Then you are going to write down a list of every little detail about your future partner. This can take some time to complete. You can always edit or add to the list later.
Step two is the most important action to take. You are going to examine your list closely and then turn it on yourself.
Do you do for yourself what you are expecting of your partner?
Do you love yourself as much as you expect your future partner to?
Do you provide for yourself what you are expecting in a partner?
Do you match what you are wanting? You get the point.
If you do not answer “yes” to any of the questions above, then you need to love yourself first and foremost. Once this important step is complete you will attract your perfect partner without even noticing or trying to.
“Until someone loves, accepts & understands everything about themselves they are incapable of being in a relationship where their partner loves, accepts & understands them.” LBH